Aaaahhhh...

• Husbands Godmother who he grew up with as "grandmother" left all her money to some guy Kenny.  When I say all her money, I'm talking 1.3 million.  We were left 10 thousand and my MIL was left 12 thousand.  Yet MIL and my husband were there for "grandmother" as a support system for the last 40+ years.
• SWW is driving me nuts.  She is SO hyperactive.  I've applied to our local Children's Hospital for a developmental pediatrician.  I don't expect to hear anything for at least 6 months.  I am concerned that she won't be able to make friends, focus in school, we won't be able to handle it
• Husband did NOT get a good salary increase even though he got exceeds expections for everything at his review
• We are worried about the plant where he is currently employed not staying open beyond the next 4 years because that's when the government contracts end.
• The 2 choices we have to move to are in the south where schools don't have a good reputation for special needs so we would be doing private school and there is the heat to consider, and MS doctors.  The other location is on the West coast and SO far away from our family.  Not a lot of sun aka vitamin D for me, but good medical care and good schools.  And good tempertures.  A lot of rain which I find depressing.  I don't know about the special needs thing.  I didn't research that yet.  Only the one in the south because the southern plant location is still on the east coast and I could take a train back easily.
• The SWW is wreaking havoc here.  Today while I was in the dining room having a cup of coffee and upstairs brushing teeth she make a huge pile of every pillow in the house and then used nail polish on the carpet.  We have only one room in the house that is carpeted.  Thank you very much.  
• As soon as I clean something or put something away the SWW finds it and either pulls it out, makes it dirty, or breaks it.